How To Stop Running Away From Yourself: 14 Real Ways

In this new article you’ll learn how to stop running away from yourself.

We make excuses all the time to avoid dealing with our inner problems. Many people find it easier to blame their problems on other people or situations beyond their control, rather than looking within themselves for the cause of the problem.

However, avoiding dealing with problems can lead to a vicious cycle of stress and habits that lead to worse situations, and avoidance only makes problems bigger and harder to overcome in the long run. You will regain a sense of peace and control over your life when you learn to stop running from yourself.

How To Stop Running Away From Yourself:

1. Develop your self-awareness.

To be self-aware, you must be able to see your true self. This involves accepting yourself for who you are and recognizing that we are all just human. No one is without flaws.

In stressful or challenging situations, you must show empathy, patience, strength, humility and love for yourself in the same way that you offer empathy, patience, strength, humility and love to others. Everyone makes mistakes, faces stress, and problems at some point in their lives, and the best approach to dealing with these situations is self-awareness and acceptance.

You can discover what you need to do to make changes in your life to solve pressing problems and ultimately become a better person through self-awareness.

2. Take some time to reflect.

You need to pause and reflect if you feel powerless or overwhelmed. Identify the difficulties you are facing. Then consider what internal factors are causing these concerns.

For example, if your performance at work has deteriorated recently, perfectionism or melancholy may be the cause.

Analyze any recurring negative thoughts you have about yourself. Try to figure out what triggers them by identifying the underlying fear or insecurity.

3. Develop a sense of perspective.

Look at your own life through the eyes of an impartial observer. Analyze your actions to see if there are any repeating patterns. Looking at things from a different perspective can help you look more objectively at the problems you face.

Examine your actions and how you spend your time to see if they are consistent with your ideals.

If you have trouble looking at your life objectively, ask a trusted friend or family member to help you identify unfavorable patterns of behavior.

3. Stop attempting to flee.

Playing video games, surfing the internet, and even working too hard are all examples of escapism. To better understand what your difficulties are, simplify your life and eliminate unnecessary distractions.

For example, if you’re dealing with personal issues, you might want to stop watching movies and give up extra work.

While a little escapism isn’t always so terrible, it will only slow down your progress if you’re trying to resolve your difficulties.

4. Work on your courage.

Dealing with areas of your personality that you don’t like or understand takes a lot of courage. Take a deep breath and resolve to work through your issues, no matter how uncomfortable the process may be.

Remind yourself how much better and freer you will feel after acknowledging and dealing with your problems.

Repeating optimistic mantras such as “You can achieve this” or “Everyone has been through this before” will help you gain confidence. Then focus on taking at least one good step toward your goals.

5. Be kind to yourself if you make mistakes.

No one is perfect, so don’t be too hard on yourself if you make mistakes. Instead of blaming yourself for past failures, focus on improving yourself for the future. Accept your limits as they are!

Writing an apology letter to yourself is a fantastic way to let go of the past. You should send this letter to yourself. Set aside some quiet time to read it and contemplate it when the time comes.

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6. Don’t make yourself a victim.

Make every effort not to become a victim of yourself. When you feel victimized, you are more likely to isolate yourself and avoid situations. You are not helpless; you have the ability to make changes in your life and face the obstacles you face.

You will encounter many obstacles in life that will cause problems, and you must learn from them and try to fix them. Here are some things that you should stay away from:

Make excuses for all the ways you were wronged in a particular case.

Constantly harping on how you were mistreated or how you feel trapped and powerless in your situation rather than considering all the things you can change to make it better.

Obsessively focusing solely on feelings of sadness, anger, guilt, humiliation, helplessness, and hopelessness.

7. Don’t be too hard on yourself.

Try to find a way to joke about your mistakes. A sense of humor can help you forget the past and look to the future.

For example, if you have the habit of replaying uncomfortable experiences, finding humor in the situation can help you move on.

8. Think about the values and ideals that are important to you.

Consider whether you are following your own moral compass (1) or one you acquired from someone else. Consider how you can begin to forge a new path based on your own ideals if you feel you are living without a sense of direction.

For example, if you value integrity and you work for a company that uses unethical ways to generate profits, you may decide to leave and look for another job that aligns with your beliefs.

If you are not sure what your values and beliefs are, read about the world and experiment with alternative perspectives. Stay abreast of current events by reading extensively and talking to different people. Knowledge will help you create a moral compass that you can trust.

9. Create a strategy.

Once you have identified your problems, think about how you will solve them. Decide what you want your life to look like after you solve your problems, and then figure out how to get there. Then, come up with a list of actions you can take to make that a reality.

For example, if your health is deteriorating and you want to improve it, you can start exercising. Buying a pedometer, walking every day after dinner, and considering a gym membership are all great ideas.

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10. Try to be mindful.

Instead of running away from difficulties, living in the moment will help you deal with them as they arise. Practice focusing all your attention on ordinary activities as you do them to cultivate the habit of mindfulness. Pay attention to the bodily sensations you experience as well as the ideas that pop into your head.

Pay attention to the colors outside your window, the smell of the air, and the feel of your feet on the ground as you walk out your front door in the morning.

11. Deal with problems as quickly as possible.

Dealing with problems is an ongoing process, not a one-time event. Pay attention to new problems that require your attention and deal with them as quickly as possible.

It is easier to solve problems once you have developed the habit of being proactive (2).

12. Maintain a journal.

A journal is a great tool for keeping track of your ideas and progress. Develop the habit of writing at the same time every day. Don’t worry about spelling or punctuation; just write down your ideas.

Writing in the evening allows you to reflect on the day’s events. Make writing a regular part of your ritual before bed.

13. Always be loyal to yourself.

Live your life in a way that feels authentic and comfortable to you. Even if you think that’s not what other people want, don’t pretend to be someone you’re not. Assuming a false persona saps your energy and can lead to emotional problems such as anger or melancholy.

You may not be staying true to yourself if your personality changes depending on where you are and who you are with.

By applying a filter to your behaviors and judgments, you can be more authentic with yourself. Before you begin, ask yourself, “Who am I doing this for?” You should prioritize your own interests and needs if you regularly find that you regularly meet the expectations of others.

14. Take your time.

Expect that you won’t be able to solve all your problems in one day. Larger problems can take months or even years to fully resolve. It’s natural to make mistakes and have to start over, so don’t be too hard on yourself if you’re not making as much progress as you’d like.

Thank you for reading this article about how to stop running away from yourself and I really hope that you take action my advice.

I wish you good luck and I hope its contents have been a good help to you.

Przemkas Mosky
Przemkas Mosky started Perfect 24 Hours in 2017. He is a Personal Productivity Specialist, blogger and entrepreneur. He also works as a coach assisting people to increase their motivation, social skills or leadership abilities. Read more here