In today’s article, you’re going to learn everything you need to know about how to create your own reality.
We often want something to change in our lives. Most of us dream of a peaceful and fulfilled life in which nothing is missing. We feel good imagining ourselves leading a happy life. However, usually it is only in the sphere of dreams. Man is waiting and nothing changes. Why is this happening and how to prevent it?
How To Create Your Own Reality
We must honestly admit that a dream, a strong desire to achieve it and motivation help achieve the goal. Only that many people stop only on dreams. They want something, by the way, complaining that they would do something if the conditions changed or people around them would be different, or they would have enough funds that would allow them to move out of the place, etc. It is not uncommon that they combine all these reasons together. Yes, these reasons make sense and are justified. Nevertheless, they do not necessarily destroy any human impulses. In fact, they are not a problem; the problem is a person who thinks that they are a real pain for her and an obstacle on the way to the goal. And this can be changed. And everyone is able to do it.
Start making changes wherever you are
I believe – and this is my opinion only – that in the first place man should organize himself in-house. What does it mean? Let’s look at something together. Who and what do people most often indicate as the cause of their failures or problems? Other people, life situations or lack of money. They blame and do not see that they do not help themselves by condemning everything and everyone. They want to change other people and circumstances, and they do not want to change themselves, their mentality and emotional attitude. It is clear that they will do little with this approach and will not change much.
Even if, according to their wishes, the people around them suddenly changed, situations would be favorable and they would have more money, they would soon break it down by themselves. Why? Because they did not change themselves. They introduced an old behavioral model into the new magnificent reality. And this inexorably will let you know about yourself and spoil all the fun. It’s like putting an old and broken apple in a fresh basket. It is known what will happen soon with these fresh ones – they will also rot. A man who is negatively oriented to the world nowhere and never creates a dream life.
Does this mean that before the environment and friendships change, you have to change yourself first? Not exactly. However, it will be useful to become aware of something. Personally, I agree with the statement that being with people with a positive attitude and in a favorable environment really helps. Only that there is something to pay attention to, if you want to change your surroundings and friendships in order to make your life happier.
And what should you pay attention to? For your own mentality, which you also have to change in a new place and among new people, otherwise the state of idyll and new good friendships will not last long. Also, deciding to change the place of stay, work, environment, people, etc., it is worth keeping this in mind. The old mental model must be replaced with a new one.
For someone who feels the need to make changes and for this purpose moves to a new place, meets new people, starts a new job or contains a relationship, etc., it will be helpful to remember just to change yourself in this new environment. Ensure the right mentality and emotional state. However, you can also make changes wherever you are and thanks to that, rebuild the reality. When your own mentality and emotional attitude change, everything will change. There will be new people, ideas and opportunities to use. The desired benefits will also begin to flow.
The old unfavorable acquaintances and life situations will naturally begin to go back to the past. This will result from directing your own attention, energy and thoughts to your own desires and goals. Similar attracts similar – you probably know this saying? Perception plays an important role here. Pay attention to how you perceive something, how you react and what you bring to the reality that surrounds you.
It’s worth working on yourself
A serious blockade, which you have probably already deduced from reading this text, which causes that the desired changes do not take place in a person’s life, he is alone. Wanting everything to change around, and not wanting to change yourself, nothing really will change. This is wishful thinking. And that’s why so many people do not experience what they want. These people get the same results in life because they are the same inside. Only by taking care of yourself, you can change something. I encourage you to do this.
Your thoughts, emotions and attention can be changed and focused on something else. All you need is insight into yourself and the awareness of your previous thoughts and emotions about the surrounding reality. The change in this respect is not so difficult and impossible to make. This beliefs can tell you that it is. And these beliefs are nothing but the result of previous thoughts and draw conclusions that this is the case. By perceiving it in a slightly different way, you can help yourself. By using your mind and your emotions to help, you can change your life completely. The mind is a powerful tool. When used in the right way, it directs the person to the right ideas and solutions and shows the right direction to follow in life.
Emotions, these positive ones, will also prove to be invaluable support. Instead of getting angry, blaming and criticizing, people will start to appreciate themselves and others, as well as create their own reality. It’s enough to make a change in yourself. I will add that this is the most important change that a person can make. And this is the most important achievement he will make in life. Positive results will only be an addition to this. Pleasant of course, but they will result from the inner state of man. However, I recommend continually improving myself instead of a one-off act. It’s a lifetime job that brings enormous benefits to everyone who takes it.
The first change of our own internal state is obviously the most important one, because it will be the nucleus of the next ones – it is the first step towards something better. However, keeping yourself in good condition permanently will bring much better results. It’s just like doing exercises. It is good once, but more often – and preferably systematically – means even better.
If you really want to change something in your life, I am asking you to “examine”your thoughts, emotions and see where your attention is going. Doing this will give you valuable answers and you will know what the problem is. Locate it and you will solve what is bothering you. By solving the problem, you will get the right result. By getting the right result, you will change your reality. Maybe you perceive people in a negative way? Or maybe you are annoyed by many things that surround you? And maybe your emotional attitude is hostile?
Remember that you always have the opportunity to change it, because it is you who create your reality. She is a reflection of your thoughts, emotions and deeds. Knowing this and working on yourself, you have an unprecedented opportunity to change what you feel is not conducive to you and causes only problems. Become the creator of your own life instead of being someone who constantly complains and hopes that others and reality will change at his request. It does not work that way. So you know what it would be good to do.